Do you know that it’s time to make a change, but don’t know how? Have you ever felt satisfied with your life, but suddenly you started to feel some discomfort? Maybe is the right time to ask yourself: “What is not going well?” and start your change process.
I study and practice NLP since 2006, and I am Master Practicioner certified by the International Society of NLP™. I’m a coach and I want to be the person that will accompain you through your change process.
First session of coaching with me is always free of charge: it is useful to get to know each other, this way we could decide if we will start a way forward together!
We can do it live, here in Fuerteventura or as well via Skype.
Throughout coaching we will discover the change you need.
It might not be easy at the beginning, and it will requiere a challenging work, but – trust me – it will be well worth!
THE SECRET OF SUCCESS
As we move forward, you will realize more and more, how you will love to discover yourself being able to “enjoy the journey”, in other words, to relish every step on your path, without noticing on the “performance anxiety” and fix yourself on the end your change process.
To enjoy the journey is for me the most authentic and powerful secret of succes, the ultimate guarantee to reach any goal.
Imagine yourself on the path of a mountain, walking towards the top: the more you focus on the mountain, the furthest it seems to be, almost unreachable.
It is normal from time to time to go slower, to tripp up, having to go back because maybe you have tried to take a shortcut: that doesnt mean that you won’t get there, or that the mountain will disappear.
You only thing you have to do is keep going, enjoying the landscape, without looking only to the top: there are beautiful flowers around you, full of colors, clean watercourses, smell to fir trees, butterflies and thousands of great and small miracles of nature to be admired.
As you follow your path, you will become aware of how beautifull is to appreciate your commitment in to reach the top, and you wont even realize the soreness on your legs!
The more you focus on the path, the closest the top will be. Even Einstein used to say it…
BEHAVIORS AND EMOTIONS
During the coaching sessions I use to stimulate the logic and rational part: this is crucial to determine your beliefs and – most of all – your values and the mental strategies those generate and suport your behaviors.
At the same time I start working on emotions, if needed, through Ericksonian Hypnotic sessions, that I study and practice since long time ago.
FEELINGS INTO POWER
Besides of the exquisitely logical work, we will focus on the sentimental/emotional sphere: I will put to your disposal useful tools, so you can work by your own.
The emotions guide our behaviors: we naturally try to reach pleasure and get away from pain.
HERE, OUR PATH STAGES:
We identify what it means to you “feeling good”(pleasure) or “feeling bad”(pain);
We learn to recognize behaviors and discover values, beliefs and experiences that generates them;
We analize values, beliefs and experiences “to be saved” and enhance – those that are relevant for you- and “throw away” or weaken those that harm us;
We determine a challenging and achievable goal, based on the posibilities and on what we have learned;
We define an strategy that leads us to reach that goal.
I know, maybe this can be a long and difficult path to follow, but you will surprise about how you will find is fast and easy.
Once we understand how your brain works, we will find a quick way to make it “work for you”.
I am not able to meditate or to practice “spiritual” discipline, and I deeply respect every spiritual doctrine, even those I do not practice.
Since I was a child I love studing; it satisfies me, maybe because my rational part is very strong.
That’s why NLP is for me a mine of useful tools making me learn “how do I work”, and then “work in the way I want”.
Each one of us has a powerful “standard equipment”: our brain!
As we understand how does it works, you will learn how to make it “work for you” and you will get what you really need.
WHAT IS NLP?
Many people view NLP as “a simple praise for the positive”. They think that is enough to repeat continously (and maybe say it outloud with a fake smile) slogans like: “Enthusiasm! How great! Smile to life! I have chosen to be happy! And instantly miracles will happen.
I don’t like phrases “posted” on social networks: “you can get whatever you want, you just have to really want it! Today is going to be great! I have chosen that today is going to be the first day of my new life! Being happy is your responsability! And and I could go on indefinitely.
NPL FOR ME:
For me the NLP is a technology, a set of tools thanks to which I can choose the life I want to live and the person I want to be.
MORE CONTENTS AND LESS SHELLS
I started getting interested in NLP in 2006; ever since, I read many books, I went to seminars of “personal growth” (some of them truly “exciting”), I have walk through fire, I have attended many conferences and listened many audio-guides.
I must confess I felt sceptical and even unease on many times.
I had to work hard, most of all at the beginning of my studies, when I was convinced that NLP was a kind of “persuasive trick”, that it consisted on “sleight of hand” more suitable for “snake charmers”.
Despite this, I kept studing NLP and -mostly- practicing it as much as possible, looking for skilled profesionals, focusing my attention more in the content of this discipline than in the shell.
REMEMBER… You can tell a good coach for the example this one gives and the quality of life that lives!
AFTER ONE COACHING SESSION PEOPLE Say…
“You have been warm and spontaneous, something not so easy to show, most of all via Skype and seeing each other for the first time. You got to know me very well despite the short time and have been able to get more conclusions compared to those who surround me since long time ago and watch me from the outside.” R.
“I don’t know how have you been able to understand what I really wanted to say, and most of all, to understand my emotions …” F.
“I was sceptical at the begining, but the more I talked to you, the more I realize that you understood me. The exercises we have performed together have surprised me…” L.
“…You have packed me with enthusiasm…” P.
“You have found the words to wake up my brain…” A.
“…You give me positive energy…I have understood that I want to feel better, and most of all that I want to be who I deserve, don’t leave it only in words…” T.
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